Kccitystar Posted October 6, 2006 Share Posted October 6, 2006 I've been like that for the past 5 or 6 years. I'm not a party-person, nor do I like to be around people all day, everyday. I could care less about popularity amongst peers. All I need is a few close friends, and I'm good. But don't get me wrong, I mean, I have my moments where I like to socialize, but majority of the time, I like to be left alone. (I was always told its an "only child" thing, but given the circumstances I was dealt with as a child, living with my grandparents, I often felt like an only child). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BigRog Posted October 6, 2006 Share Posted October 6, 2006 I've been like that for the past 5 or 6 years. I'm not a party-person, nor do I like to be around people all day, everyday. I could care less about popularity amongst peers. All I need is a few close friends, and I'm good. But don't get me wrong, I mean, I have my moments where I like to socialize, but majority of the time, I like to be left alone. (I was always told its an "only child" thing, but given the circumstances I was dealt with as a child, living with my grandparents, I often felt like an only child).im just like you except i got to be around the beautiful women 8-) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kccitystar Posted October 6, 2006 Author Share Posted October 6, 2006 im just like you except i got to be around the beautiful women 8-) You trying to say I don't get to be around women? :thunder: I mean I do, but I don't like the drama Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BigRog Posted October 6, 2006 Share Posted October 6, 2006 no i dont like the drama. im more of the pimp daddy :lol: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bama Posted October 6, 2006 Share Posted October 6, 2006 I am completely, 100% antisocial. It sucks. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BigRog Posted October 6, 2006 Share Posted October 6, 2006 I am completely, 100% antisocial. It sucks.i know how that means i used to be a geek. heck i probolly still am. Now the ladies just want me (i wish) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fred13 Posted October 6, 2006 Share Posted October 6, 2006 KC, its your fault I'm anti-socia. Your beautiful uniforms want me to play MVP all day instead of going out :lol: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MarlinsMS_35 Posted October 6, 2006 Share Posted October 6, 2006 I'm really social with people on the bottom, and middle of the totem pole, because I'm not popular, and I'm not a person who nobody knows, I'm in the middle where the "popular kids" ignore me, but everyone else refers to me as their friend. Yes, I'm that guy who every girl likes as a friend but nothing more, lucky me............ I don't like party's either. But I can talk to people for hours. I also have my days where I like to be left alone, everyone does. I only have 1 or 2 friends that are in the "popular" group. But of course in my school it's really wierd. If you're Hispanic, everyone loves you. That's South FLorida for you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BigRog Posted October 6, 2006 Share Posted October 6, 2006 KC, its your fault I'm anti-socia. Your beautiful uniforms want me to play MVP all day instead of going out yes if i could i would mary those uniforms. they better not be cheating on me with you fred Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kccitystar Posted October 6, 2006 Author Share Posted October 6, 2006 I like to spend time with my close friends, though. I'm at the age where I'm narrowing down the TRUE friends from the associates, and they're like family to me; so I'll definately make time for them always. But now, I just like to stay home and chill. I realized that when I'm away from people, especially around my age, I'm most happiest and relaxed - because there's no drama. It's funny how when I do my own thing away from everybody, "friends" take great offense to it and act as if I dissed them, or as if I'm all that, or don't have time for them and all that garbage. People just don't understand that I don't care about partying and the "who sleepin' wit who" drama. I don't have time for it. Entertaining? Yes. But something I want to be around? No. But I thank God I had the opportunity to mature early on in life because I'm enjoying where I'm at right now. When you learn how to say no and let go of peeps, the you found the strength to succeed in life. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fred13 Posted October 6, 2006 Share Posted October 6, 2006 I agree. I only consider about 5-6 people as my true friends. These are the guys you can always talk to no matter what you got going on. The rest are just people who you can have a decent conversation or a waste an hour or two with. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BigRog Posted October 6, 2006 Share Posted October 6, 2006 my two truest friends are in college then my friend becca who is borderline is with me at school Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
krawhitham Posted October 6, 2006 Share Posted October 6, 2006 I am completely, 100% antisocial. It sucks. No it doesn't trust me, I've done both and learned one thing people SUCK Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bravesj858 Posted October 8, 2006 Share Posted October 8, 2006 it's werid with me. i'm problay one of the "names" at my college, as in i'm known in alot of circles at school (the enrollement is only 3000). but i'm not in the party scenes or stuff like that, i decline invites to alot of soical events, i would prefer a smaller group chat where i can get to know a few people more than be around many friends at once (a major reason why i decided to go to a small school instead of a bigger univeristy). i'm not big into gossip like some of the others are. a perfect date to me is just spending some personal time with the other person outdoors where we can just talk about the envoriment and ourselves, ethier that or watching baseball on tv, playing video games, etc, not in a place with lots of people, i feel so cramped. so compared to alot of people, i may seem anti-soical in that regard, but i talk to alot of people on campus, but it's more personal, not big and public outings. also in high school, i was well known, but i was always bullied. and kc, i think i'm also at a point where i don't just do things becuase everyone else is into it. i do things becuase i like it, not becuase everyone else does. my intrests are mine, not to the group. that's why i'm sometimes considred anti-social, as i follow my own, not them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jogar84 Posted October 8, 2006 Share Posted October 8, 2006 You are going through a phase. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Totte Posted October 9, 2006 Share Posted October 9, 2006 I feel exactly the same way as you KC... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dan Posted October 9, 2006 Share Posted October 9, 2006 I'm in a private school and we only have 10 boys in our grade (including me). They're all really immature for their age and always have been so I've always been around the girls. I know they're all going through a phase but I absolutely hate being seen with them. They all talk about sex and make jokes and hit each other and all that crap. I'm pretty anti-social, but I do like having a few close friends when I go to parties and stuff. -dan Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ronmexico Posted October 9, 2006 Share Posted October 9, 2006 I've been like that for the past 5 or 6 years. I'm not a party-person, nor do I like to be around people all day, everyday. I could care less about popularity amongst peers. All I need is a few close friends, and I'm good. But don't get me wrong, I mean, I have my moments where I like to socialize, but majority of the time, I like to be left alone. (I was always told its an "only child" thing, but given the circumstances I was dealt with as a child, living with my grandparents, I often felt like an only child). I'm like you, thats why I am on this site. I thought you had a brother though? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gordo Posted October 9, 2006 Share Posted October 9, 2006 What you guys are describing is that you're being "asocial". Anti-social is when you're engaging in criminal activity, also known as sociopathic personality or behavior, also when you refer to people as "sucking" (j/k kraw). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ronmexico Posted October 9, 2006 Share Posted October 9, 2006 Good point, I also don't avoid socializing, I just don't do it that often. A lot of people tend to be stupid, and suck. :lol: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Metlover22 Posted October 10, 2006 Share Posted October 10, 2006 I'm really social with people on the bottom, and middle of the totem pole, because I'm not popular, and I'm not a person who nobody knows, I'm in the middle where the "popular kids" ignore me, but everyone else refers to me as their friend. Yes, I'm that guy who every girl likes as a friend but nothing more, lucky me............ I don't like party's either. But I can talk to people for hours. I also have my days where I like to be left alone, everyone does. I only have 1 or 2 friends that are in the "popular" group. But of course in my school it's really wierd. If you're Hispanic, everyone loves you. That's South FLorida for you. Im just like that kennyess, dont worry KC its just a phase,i went thorugh it when i was in 5th grade but i went through it and now im a very sociable person Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ronmexico Posted October 10, 2006 Share Posted October 10, 2006 Im just like that kennyess, dont worry KC its just a phase,i went thorugh it when i was in 5th grade but i went through it and now im a very sociable person What phase, thats the story of my life. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
UncleMo Posted October 11, 2006 Share Posted October 11, 2006 Ok, so this thread tells me it is not just me. It is not just me. It is not just me. I'll stop repeating this to myself every weekend when I get this strange feeling to not be aroudn anyone. Incuding my crazy family. :gape: :stone: :tusk: :starwars: :hammer: :axe: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SESbb30 Posted October 11, 2006 Share Posted October 11, 2006 No it doesn't trust me, I've done both and learned one thing people SUCK aint that the truth! :headache: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SESbb30 Posted October 11, 2006 Share Posted October 11, 2006 Ok, so this thread tells me it is not just me. It is not just me. It is not just me. I'll stop repeating this to myself every weekend when I get this strange feeling to not be aroudn anyone. Incuding my crazy family. :gape: :stone: :tusk: :starwars: :hammer: :axe: my family is the same way man, i know what you mean. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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